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SacJB Shady- 08-25-2008
Sac JB feels hopeless at age 23, what should he do?
Well, folks about to turn 23 in 2 weeks. And I am just very nervous about my life. Im very shaky about how national examiner will do. What am I going to with my life? To be honest, I hate community college. I hate studying. I most of all hate WORKING! There is nothing worst to me then going to a job. But if I had a job, I would feel better. What am I going to do with my life? What if I just keep selling the rings and never get out of debt? And what if by the time I do, the debt comes right back because I have to pay for taxes? My mind has a million thoughts. The thing is I don't believe in myself. When I first started the business, I was motivated. You know why?? the STRIPCLUBS. Now, i don't care for lap dances. And there isn't as much motivation. the only motivation is to get out of debt. That is NOT the same as making lots of money. That's just paying off money so you don't have to pay any one money. Paying off debt is not as motivating as excited to get rich. I am about to turn 23. 22 or less is young. 23 is where you are considered a very old man. 23 and up is old. 22 and younger is young. I just don't have motivation. How is getting out of debt motivation? After all the success in sun and have got nowhere, I am lost. I am questioning myself. I am doubting myself. I don't know what to do. National examiner probably is my last hope. I don't see discover earning 5 grand a month for me. One of the reasons I am not that motivated to get rich, is because my belief level is not that high anymore. When I first started nexus, I thought I was all that. And then I invested in like 25 ads or something and I immediatley got into 12 grand a month in the first 3 months. I am 23 and have never had a girlfriend. I have never went on a date. I have never had s*x with a real girl. I have no college degree. I have no job. I don't know what I want. I mean, I just don't know. And I'm 23!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM AN OLD MAN NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 23!!!! 23!!!! 23!!!! I am almost 23 years old!!!! And I"m not rich!!!! I'm almost 23!!!!! 23! I am so old!!! Not even close to 18 years old no more! I'm an old man! I don't have a job, I don't have an education, got no girlfriend, can't talk to girls, have lots of credit card debt, I'm almost 23! When lobsang was 25, he was already a doctor! I'm almost that age now and I have no college education! Lobsang calls me a kid! That is an insult to me, it means I am not experienced. When he was my age, he was a doctor! What am I? I'm a fake doctor in the magazines. Now I used to take medication, so my mind don't function the same it used to even though I am off.

SacJB Shady- 08-25-2008
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Lobsang, you have a lifetime of experience. Hey listen, I feel bad about myself and how i didn't graduate school and all this other stuff. I wish I could have lived differently. Should i feel bad about myself? I wish things were different. at what age is it too late to turn things around. at what age are you too old to succeed and change? I'm going through a 23 year old crisis right now. For the first time in my life, I feel that time is slipping away. I was 18 one day, then the next I'm 23. It just doesn't make sense. I have wasted my life. When i was 18, i dropped out of school to do a mlm full time. I thought I was going to be rich. I worked hard at it for a year. I wanted it SO bad. I worked all day and matt complained I didn't work hard enough. And the business went bankrupt. And then I tried ebay, selling hundreds of products and failed. Tried taking a couple of classes at same time, fell way behind and then all of a sudden I'm 23. It happend WAY too fast. I didn't expect it to happen this fast. I feel like I should still be 20 or 21. It's just insane. I will never have lost time back. It's gone. So, is it too late for me to do anything with my life? If you were to be a 23 year old with no degree lobsang, I just put you into a 23 year old body and you got no degree, what would you do right away? I am so lost and just feel so hopeless. You have been through it though. So since your life got messed up, I know that you know how to teach others well. How do I go about my life?

Lobsang- 08-25-2008

You think you are old. But 23 is just a child. Do the rings and find a career. You are just a baby. You have only been able to drink for a couple of years. You cannot even rent a car yet for God's sakes!

jc- 08-25-2008

FOCUS SacJB, FOCUS and dont PANIC ! One thing at a time.. If your stressing out, get a peace of paper and write down your goals and what you would like to achieve, This will let you have some control and make you feel better.. Like : 1) FINISH MY STUDY 2) GET A DESCENT JOB- WHILE DOING RINGS ON THE SIDE 3) GET RID OF MY DEBT OR AT LEAST CUT IT BY HALF 4) GET A GIRLFRIEND- OR AT LEAST TRY TO.- i suggest not to though since your in high debt as girlfriend can cost $$$.. 5) WORK HARD EARN MORE MONEY TO GET RID OF THE REST OF YOUR DEBT- getting rid of your debt completely is very important as a young man at your age does not need this kind of debt on your shoulders. 6) STOP WASTING MONEY ON USELESS THINGS AND SAVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN WHILE HAVING FUN- RESPONSIBILY. ! - Money wise. 7) DONT LET ANYONE GET YOU INTO THINGS YOU DONT WANT TO DO ! specially if it involves money.. Unless you know what your doin.. 8 ) RESPECT, HONESTY AND TRUST ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING, NEVER LOOSE THOSE OR YOU WONT GET FAR.. 9) HAVE FAITH IN EVERYTHING YOU DO, NEVER GIVE UP ! Determination will bring you success ! 10) STOP SMOKING, HEAVY DRINKING AND DRUGS- Thats if you do any of those.. You stick to these ten GOALS (or make your own) and you will succeed.

Anonymous- 08-25-2008

Join the KKK and the Nazi party.

jc- 08-25-2008

Yeah, bright future there.. :roll:

SacJB Shady- 08-25-2008
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alex, 4 people on the poll say go to community college full time. What do you say?