Question about Wife that needs answer ASAP!
Here's the story. My wife wanted to divorce me, and even though I didn't want to, we got a divorce. I almost gave up all hope of us getting back together, but then she called me and told me she would commit suicide if we didn't get back together because she still loves me and never stopped, and she said she couldn't live without me. And then I went to jail (on a completely seperate matter, nothing to do with her). Anyways while I was in jail even though she couldn't accept my calls, (because they were collect), I called her anyways, (because I didn't know that she couldn't take collect calls). Well I guess my calling upset her, and put her into an emotional state. Because while I was in jail my now ex wife called my mother and told her that basically my ex wife wanted to give me a dear John letter, and that she was considering giving me a restraining order because of the calling (even though I only called because she told me she wanted to get back together).
So here I am, still wanting to reconcile my marriage, only I can't contact her because I don't want to be given a dear John letter, and I don't want a restraining order on me, (because in WA STATE they hand them out like they're candy). But at the same time I don't want to let the only opportunity of getting back together again with my wife slip away before my eyes, especially since she said she would kill herself without me.
I know from the past experience with her that playing it cool, (aka hard to get), and making her jealous by cutting her out of my life, and not contacting or having anything to do with her, and making her jealous has worked in the past in getting her back. But I'm not sure if that's the right way to go this time. So here was my I-ching question. And here is what I got back as an answer.
Question:"Is it better to get "my wife" back by completely cutting her off, and by taking her off of my myspace friends list, and by replacing all photos of her that are on my myspace and facebook, and yadda yadda yadda accounts with photos of other girls, and resorting to other ways of cutting her off and making her jealous? Yes or NO?
And I got:
Year: y, Month: cn, Day: wa-IV, Empty: y & m
Family - 37
B m - grn
K e - U blk
G wa - - wht
R yo P h - gry
G c - - J yel
B m - red
So in other words is it better to just pretend like I'm over her completely and when I say completely resorting to all ways that I've ever thought of.
And I even asked in my mind when I was asking this question the words YES or NO.
And btw this question was asked at 9:25AM this morning.
HEllooooooooooooo???????????What happened to all the readers?
Self line is secretly moving. line says that " In relation to general conditions, the counsel here is to seek nothing by means of force, but quietly to confine oneself to the duties at hand.."
So in other words play hard to get and kick off of my nyspace page and facebook, ect.
Should I text my ex wife? Yes or no?
Year: y, Month: w, Day: t-VII, Empty: cn & e
Everlasting - 32 Zen - 51
G sh - - U G sh - - gry
R s - - R s - - yel
K w - K w - red
R yo O J G cn - - grn
B y P h O B y - - blk
G c X P t - wht
6 Strike