Oh yeah, about Sierra.
The time travel dude mentioned Sierra. Well, she got married, to another customer who goes to Centerfolds a lot. Chosen that dude over me because Im not white. Sierra is a pure red neck girl. Always put on cowboy hats and jean jacket. Won't even think about going out with some Chinese guy, no matter how much money I have. The day she accepted that dude's proposal, she doesn't look at me in the eye no more. I was wondering that was strange. She always looked into my eyes. How come that day she acted shy. Then I found out she just accepted that guy's proposal. But she is still stripping. And what I don't like is that her husband always go with her to the strip club when she is stripping. That's kind of strange. If I were Sierra, I would not allow my husband to follow me to that kind of place in the first place. How low do they need to be? Wife stripping and husband follows her around? If I were her husband, I will be so shameful that my wife is still stripping that I won't even show up at where she works anymore. Both of them are pretty low class. That's not how I pictured her to be when she was single.

If you were Married would you go out to stripclubs with your friend as a boys night out ? or would you refuse stripclubs in respect to your wife ?

Are you asking yourself why she married with him , instead of you ? I don't think its because of your skin colour, its because you acted like a wussy. In a relationship there is always a power pendulum, you gave her total power upon you. Acting like a jerk, that's to say, going every night at the stripclub, making gifts, paying for dinners, clearly puts someone in the wussy mode. I bet that his current husband is a dork with money , and maybe slightly abusive adn a dumbass. Women don't linke nice guys, they want man with power. Next time, you like a girl , act as a dumbass , and show no care

I don't think he has money. Because if he has money, he won't follow her wife to the strip club where she works. Rich people will never tolerate stuff like that. Only low class bums would do these things. Think about it. You drive a Benz and live in a mansion. You earn at least $200,000 a year. Will you feel comfortable following your wife to a strip club where she takes off her cloths in front of hundreds of drunken men? Only a bum would do such thing. If you are a busboy or a dishwasher, you don't mind following your wife to a strip club and see her strip. Because you are not too much higher than her.

I fail to see the logic in that. Rich people go to strip clubs all the time.

Yes they do. But if your own wife is a stripper, you want to dig a hole in the ground and climb in. Not to mention meeting your wife at the club while she strips.

I personally wouldn`t want my wife stripping at clubs, she would have to quit her job for me if she respects me, she can strip for me not other men no matter how much money she would get, just not right..

JC is right. If either of them have any respect for each other, then they would have changed their habits and started making their lives better - instead of staying the same. But then, maybe they are in a rut - one that involves drug use. Think about it - she is a stripper and most, if not all, strippers take drugs. It goes with the territory. Most strippers DO go for idiots - mainly because idiots will tolarate their drug habits/lifestyle and don't mind them doing what they are doing - provided that they get a piece of the action. When I was younger, I used to see it happen all the time. What I used to find really funny was when the idiots used to get dumped for another stripper :lol: I knew of one that did that when I used to work as a skimpy barmaid here in regional WA many moons ago. It was just sooo funny!!! 8)

Chosen that dude over me because Im not white. Sierra is a pure red neck girl. Always put on cowboy hats and jean jacket. Won't even think about going out with some Chinese guy, no matter how much money I have. Rednecks in San Francisco? Two of them, and they found each other? I don't believe this story.

but are you sad about sierra getting married to that guy.

I just wanna know if he's banged the new girl yet?

I just wanna know if he's banged the new girl yet? I think we will be the first to know here in the forum when it does finally happen :wink: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Sad to read about Sierra, but you have cause and effect in action, and are continuing to ignore it, Alex, which is why a girl who "Won't even think about going out with some Chinese guy" comes into your life. If you were Somali, then she'd be a girl who will date anybody but a Somali. Meanwhile, I'm getting frustrated with family members for doing the same thing. . .which has exacerbated my illness. . .which was, incidentally caused by me! Look exactly at your response to v71: You literally extracted -and responded to- only that, which you are willing to see, hence willing to address! You did exactly the same thing about my "strippers" post, as if you see only the dust, and not the leuvers of the blinds upon which it lay! I admit that I am astounded that a person such as yourself would be actually stuck. I don't consider myself to be very highly developed, but. . .at a loss for words. . .

Sorry to here of such an upset Alex. However, I must concur because I know someone that works a job where he interacts many hot chics a week and he finds himself extrememly in demand by them--they go CRAZY OVER HIM-- for the most part he ignores them. He doesnt flash money. He doenst even dress fancily. But thing is, girls like the chase and the competition with other girls. They wonder "What is it that he's got?" or "Who is it that gets to go home with him that he can blow us off like that?" Most wont care if you are Asian, Somalian or a busboy or have a Mercedes or not. Flaunting goods might tend to be a way of attracting the wrong kind of girl (i.e. golddiggers). If you are too easy to a girl or "too interested" in a girl--especially one who has low self esteem--she will resolve you to be a moron or a fool. If you show disinterest chances are she will be perplexed and question her power of attraction and take deeper interest in you--something along those lines. Girls make sense if you realize that they are turned on by dominance, muscles, strength, intelligence and not just warm gestures at the right time. Anyone who has ever met a girl who had a boyfriend or husband 10 feet away while she hit on another guy and made the boyfriend or husbnad jealous has likely seen a girl looking to get turned on because her bf was being wimpy and then wanted a show of dominance to get herself turned on and reinterested in her boyfriend or husband. Of the girls I have after me, I wouldnt say that I'm nice to any of them. I'm kind but I draw lines. If they show disrespect I will point it out firmly. I am not abusive therefore I dont tolerate abuse from chics. SImple. If you tolerate their abuse then they might regard you to be weak than them and they might look for someone who shows more dominance.