Oh my God. We kissed! She kissed me.
Oh my God. We kissed. She kissed me mouth to mouth. Well, maybe I could get more soon. We went shopping at super market. I saw what she bought. We had a romantic dinner and went inside a wax musium.

How much for the kiss ?

how much extra did she charge for halitosis?

What the hell, you should have kissed her on the first date. Who's idea was it to go to a Fucking wax museum? Next time do something cooler. Think of a good reason for her to come over to your place: watch a new movie that you picked up, listen to a new CD that you have, show her something that you've been working on, make dinner for her, etc.

Oh I made dinner for her already. I bring dinner to her when she works. I made her steak, etc. The kiss is part of the program. Yesterday I paid her $17 per hour as usual. But when we are about to part, she said paying her all the time is not romantic. She wanted some other arrangement. So I said I should buy her a prepaid credit card and I will refill the card maybe once a week. That's more romantic. I swear I never had so much fun and romance before in my life. She is such a sweet person.

lol Wow. You must have a weird definition of romance.

Oh c'mon. Women. I know today's women are a little more independent. They would fuck you for dinner and movie tickets. But this girl is a little bit old fashioned. Back in the 40s and 50s, women are just like this. You have to at least show some dedication by paying her some money. I don't pay much actually. You think about this: I only need to date like 4 or 5 times a month. That's about $300. Hey if she doesn't like me you think she would drive all the way to San Francisco like 4 or 5 times a month just to collect that $300? Not to mension she has to kiss me and probably sex. C'mon dude. $300 is nothing. It makes a woman happy. That's all. They feel that you are not just using them for sex. And maybe take her shopping once awhile, buy christmas gifts, etc. It's all part of a good strong relationship. If a guy is too stingy, the woman could find somebody better. If you only are willing to pay for dinner, why would a beautiful woman like her stick around you? You have to show some dedication you know. Let her know you mean business. Let her feel secure, etc. It's all part of romance you know. Women are searching for men who knows how to take care of things.

Hmm, well for me personally a girl has to enjoy me for me, the girl will see how i treat her and she will adore me, i dont have to show her security by giving her money, once we are fully committed and marry then she has all the security she needs.. What if she breaks up with you ALEX ? You have spent that money just to show a girl security ? for what ? You will regret it if she breaks up with you and you spent that money when this money could have gone to better use ... Its in the HEART not the money..

I don't consider a stripper/prostitute to be considered an old-fashioned girl... Shes using you, and $17 an hour is fucking bullshit. (A prepaid card to reload for each date? :lol:).

Well, her last boyfriend was a dreamer musician. The last boyfriend quit his job and she has to feed him. So this time she is a little more careful. She wants a man to take care of her this time. I understand. I mean its not like Im very poor. I can give her a few hundred a month. It's no big deal. Even if she does break up with me, what's a few hundred a month?

Sounds like she made up a bullshit story. Anyone else agree?

ALEX, if you also want to know she is trustful and Honest just giver her access to your Bank account, lets see how quick your account reaches ZERO.. LOL.. :lol:

Well, in strip club, I guarantee you every guy wants to take her out. All she has to do is point to one guy and ask that guy "Would you take me out for dinner?" So basically this girl is not interested in free dinner. Because free dinner is so easy to get. So I have to prove to her that I do care about her. Buying her free dinner is obviously not enough. You understand? Any man can buy her a free dinner. But the man who is extremely serious about her would pay a certain amount of money to her every month. That kind of man is hard to find. Nobody cares about spending $60 on a dinner. Beautiful girl beside you, romance, entertainment, etc for only $60? Who would not go for it? That is why this girl is also very cautious. Every guy would buy her free dinner. Every guy can buy her some flower. But who really loves her? Well, money talks. Bullshit walks. A guy could buy her free dinner for $60, sleep with her for 1 night, and never come back. She is not looking for that kind of guy. She is a little more traditional.

In response to bazooka's post in the other thread, lets keep the discussion to this thread from now on: If it is simple prostitution, then no one is cheating anyone. However, from Alex's description it sounds very much like his new friend is taking advantage of him. Maybe one way to be find out is to stop giving gifts for awhile and see if she is still interested. Once he stops the cash flow, shes going to start to make excuses when he asks her for a date ("Oh, I have to go to a PTA meeting for the little girl" or "I have to take little Susie to the doctor, shes coming down with a cold"). This whole 'relationship' (if its even true) is fucked. Shes using him for his money figuring that it is a sex-less date, its a hell of a lot easier than for the woman to put her ankles behind her ears and get a vag-pounding. --------------------------------------- To Alex Chiu: When are you going to post a photo of you and the stripper girlfriend? I'm sure this whole forum would like to see some proof in the pudding.