Im dating her again tomorrow.
After dinner, I want to take her shopping at super market. I want to see what kind of grocery she buys. I will ask her for a photo so I can show you guys what she looks like. But she is cute. Thin lips, white skin, oval eyes, got boob job done. Dyed her hair black. Very nice and sweet person. Too good to be true. Much better than Sierra. I think I might marry her.

Does she know that you invented immortality? :lol:

Yeah, she kind of know. I didn't go into detail. You know its smart not to tell her too much about that or else she might think Im crazy. so when she gets to know me better, then I will tell her more. I don't want to scare her away now. But since she is a dancer, I offered to pay her $17 to date me. At first she was dating me for free. But I fear that if I don't show any commitment, a beautiful girl like her will be gone as soon as some more handsome, richer guy comes along. So I volunteered to pay her $17 per hour for date. This way, she knows I am serious and sincere about her. If I am too cheap and only am willing to pay for dinner and movies and nothing else, she could be gone when a better guy comes along.

Wow. This definitely has to be a joke.

No, no. I offered to pay her $17 per hour. At first she dated me for free. She dated me for free 3 times already. But because she lives in a town far away from San Francisco. She has to drive to San Francisco in order to date me. Gas is expensive. And she has to pay $4 bridge toll. By the way, she has a 4 year-old daughter. And when she comes out to see me, she has to hire baby sitter. That costs money too. If I expect to see her regularly, I better show some commitment. So I offered $17 per hour. Hey, at least that would cover the baby sitter, gas, bridge toll, etc.

That's still fucked up. Do you not have a car? If not, how come? If you're able to, maybe you should get a car or find a way to go see her. Paying for everything is not showing commitment. That shows desperation. You only show commitment through your actions. Show it by just being nice to her. Show her by showing her affection, hugging her, kissing her, etc, etc. I'm not going to judge this girl since I don't know her, but the way you talk, it seems like she's a money hungry ho. Don't let a woman use you for your money. If she breaks it off because you don't pay her an hourly wage or even pay for EVERY little thing, she's not worth the time or effort.

Oh of course I have a car. But she lives in a country side kind of town. There is nothing there. So its only smart if she drives to San Francisco where all the good restaurants and clubs are. Why do I have to drive all the way to her town, 1 hour 40 minutes round trip, just to pick her up so I can save money on wage? I mean I rather pay her $17 so I don't have to drive that much. She became a stripper in the first place because of her daughter. She has to take care of her daughter during the day and also find a job that can fit her schedule. She doesn't even have a bank account due to bad credit after the divorce 4 years ago. So I figure I can help her out a little. And you know what? $17 ain't shit. Sometimes these girls earn thousand a night. And honestly speaking I only need to date her once a week. Each date probably lasts 4 hours. $17 times 4 = $68. So each date I probably pay her $68. That ain't shit. A dinner could cost more than that. You know how much a professional escort service would cost you if you want to take them out? Like around $600 per night, not including dinner and other expenses. I am paying her by the hour just to show that I don't want to waste her time nor to rip her off. I don't mind spending around $150 to $200 per date.

Hey Alex, how was her reaction when you offered to pay her for dating?

What does she buy at the supermarket alex? Expensive stuff or cheap stuff, alot of stuff or alittle, bulk sizes or small sizes? Basiclly you want someone who will not destroy your credit card, you want someone who is frugal.

Yeah, she wants money. I'm sure she makes quite a bit of money stripping, so I'm sure she doesn't need your money. As I've said, I see nothing wrong with helping out and paying your share, maybe a bit more. But paying her to date you, and her accepting it, is just pathetic. I'm sorry, but the relationship you're in will not last. She'll stay with you for awhile until she finds another desperate guy that will pay her even more money. Hell, it wouldn't surprise me if she's seeing somebody else that's buying her shit and/or giving her money.

Well, every man in the club is willing to date her. Why would she date me for free? You have to think of it this way. It's not like she needs a date. She speaks to so many men everyday. Why would she need to speak to 1 more man? So if I only buy her dinner, it's not romantic enough for her. Don't you guys see? When I say romance, I mean romance for her!!!! If she thinks that a guy would pay her money every month is romantic, then be it. I will pay her few hundred a month.

For fuck's sakes, Alex! Keep all your mickey mouse shit in one thread, there is no need to make multiple threads about your paid relationship with a dirty whore. Oh the credit card is not a real credit card. Its a debit card. I put some money in the account, and she can use the card to buy things. So if I put $200, she can only use $200. This is a more romantic way than giving her cash every time she leaves me. She's not asking for much. A few hundred a month would not hurt. Better than me single, lonely, and going to strip club all the time. So we have come closer to the fact. You're paying this prostitute either $100 or $200 per "date". All this $17 per date, only $200-300 a month is a bunch of bullshit. If you're paying a whore, just come on out and fucking say it. (Not saying she doesn't deduct some the cost of the gifts you give her, that is what she's probably doing.) My advice to you is this: The relationship is already destined to fail based on everything you have told us (I don't think there is one person that will disagree). Instead of creating a pseudo relationship by paying a prostitute for sex-less dates... Start slowly reducing what you're paying her... Lets say its $200 per date, only deposit $100 the next time you see her. Determine her true intent. Otherwise, just pay the woman to fuck you (like any average prostitute). What ever you do, stop with the Pretty Woman bullshit. Take my advice, or you will find yourself in a painful situation (and probably her, seeing as you have the traits of a psychotic pedophile loony).

Maybe she was happy when you offered to pay her for dating because maybe to her committment is ONLY a guy who does the money thing. Then again maybe not just be weiry and careful Alex. There are alot of good woman out there. Dont set yourself up to be hurt. Find a woman who wants you for you and Then spoil her later when you know shes a good girl!