I missed Sierra
Sierra now only dances once or twice a month. Last time I saw her was 2 weeks ago. When she sees me, she hides like hell. She takes the long way all the way around the restroom, around the back dance booth area, in order to reach the bar to get a drink. She could have just walked across the hall to get to the bar. But because I was sitting there, she took the long route. She did that like 4 times that night. I approached her, asking her when will she be dancing next. She immediately said she will dance soon and just walked away pretending to go downstairs. But I saw her peeping, sticking her head out from the wall to see if I am still standing there. She stuck her head out 3 times to peep at me. Then she gave up and took the long route again to reach the bar. Last few time was even funnier. I went into the strip club at 11 pm. She was on the main stage. Then immediately she packed her bag, went to the front counter and told the bar tender that she is going hime, and she just walked out. Luckily I caught her just in time. I asked her, "Are you going home already? It's only 11:30" She said she's not sure. Undecided. Then I told her how much I missed her, that this strip club is not the same without her. Then she just left. Everytime she sees me, she basically just packed her bag and leaves. This happened like 3 times already. She comes all the way from Napa valley to dance. Now it's even funnier. She is married. So she cannot do lap dances. Only perform on stage. I don't understand her. She is losing money doing this. The bridge toll and gas and parking fee of $20 per night would eat up what ever tips she got on the stage. Then she has to tip the DJ and the bouncers and the bar tenders too. Lots of people question why does she come at all???? The last time she didn't leave when I came to the club. But now she hides away from me like I am a rat. Based on her reaction, I don't think I will ever see her again. She is totally hiding from me.

why do you think this is she afraid of you, or find you disgusting girls usually won't go out of their way that much they'll just not talk to to you and ignore you.

Im not that discusting. You should see some of the customers there. I am considered handsome there. I think she is afraid of me no doubt.

Why is she afraid of you?

It sounds like you need to leave her alone and just let her be. You're only making her more uncomfortable by approaching her and asking her questions. It's obvious she wants nothing to do with you. If someone intentionally avoided me, I wouldn't go up to them and start talking to them. I would just leave them alone.

Oh I only see her once a month now. When she was a regular, I hardly spoke to her. The longest talk I ever had with her was about 2 minutes. I only tip her. Never talk to her. But now I only see her once a month. So that day I went up to her and ask her just one question "When will you be on stage?" And she said soon and just immediately walk away.

She must think you are a right weirdo or a stalker or something? You need to sort your inner game out mate. Your people skills, confidence and stuff.

It might help to not try to pick up on whorish strippers. And to not seem so much like a stalker. Go to a regular bar and find a drunk chick, but not too drunk. Can't go wrong there. Especially because you've already got a great pickup line, you are the inventor of immortality!!!

Eternal-First of all I'm not a whore(ish stripper). But then again you wouldn't know that cause you don't even know me. Wow!!! And Alex I don't know where to begin. Read my post I guess. Sierra

First, you are right, I don't know you, it was a generalization to allow Alex to look at the reality of the situation. I have known many friends who have dated strippers, and none of these were good situations, other than the stripper giving my friend $200 to play with after breakfast the next day because she was so loaded from tips and could do stuff like that. Second, I consider any woman that is in some sort of sexually deviant line of work (stripping, pornography, prostitutes, etc) a bit whorish, unless its done artistically. I cant see stripping as artistic, no matter how high end the place is, guys go to get their dicks hard, not to appreciate your dancing ability or any of that. Thats just my opinion though, you shouldnt take offense. If you feel you are in a respectable line of work and making a decent living, then by all means, do what makes you happy. But of course there will always be others with different values that will disagree.

The art is the main drive I had, if you had ever seen me perform you would understand. I am 2008 west coast showgirl of the year and placed third at the national level and I will be opening my own studio to teach the "art". That is why I left the industry. I partially understand the stereotypes a stripper can assume, trust me I've traveled the country and only met a handful of girls out of thousands that share the same passion I do. There are people who don't always fit the mold.

Hi Sierra, This is really cool that you just showed up like this when we were just talking about you! Freaky! Anyway, I have some questions that would be great if you answered. First off, what is the story with you and Alex? He has said that he thought you fancied him and got nervous since he started the gorgeous pill. Is that true? Now, he thinks he weirds you out in some way and that you can't wait to get away from him. True? And is it because you found this site a while back and saw all the stuff he had said! That would explain a lot. And on a separate note has he gotten better looking in the past two years? And thirdly if possible can you explain to him that how you look is only part of attraction, and actually less effective on women than men, he doesn't get it.

to answer... never fancied him yes he's weirds me out found this site last night haven't noticed his appearance alter MOST importantly looks AREN'T everything!

Right Alex, it is time for real proof. Testimonials and beliefs are not good enough. You need to prove your rings and herbal formulas make people better looking. Sierra hasn't noticed and you have been doing it for 2 YEARS. You say people become like a supermodel in two months. You need to take plastic surgeon measurements on peoples faces and then go back months and years later and see if the surgeons say they are more symmetrical, in proportion and essentially that changes he would have done with a knife have been achieved naturally by your method. You talk til your blue in the face, but people can't take your word for it or look at a few photos where people are maybe now just older, more distinguished, in different light and angle or have simply become healthier. Do you realise how ridiculous that is? I'm not saying they don't work, but you have to prove it so with scientific proof and not on your word or someone elses. As for attracting girls that is mainly to do with what kind of man you are, if you have confidence and have a life. I know a guy who is short, bald, not very good looking and doesn't have much money and he is a casanova. It's his personality that attracts them and that is the most important thing with getting the women you want in your life. It's not about buying affection, that is not real, or being a rich man. Being rich helps but it is a backdrop and just means you can handle that side of life and adds to your appeal. Being physically attractive also helps but it is actually less important in attracting girls than men. I've known rich, very good looking guys who can't meet a women, really. Though being a looker can help initially. Your biggest problem Alex is not in the looks department. I don't mean to be harsh, but it is that you are not together as a man and women see it a mile off.

No no no. Because they see me everyday. Of course they don't notice the difference. But when Stella (another stripper) came back from Russia after 6 months, she immediately points out that my face is smaller and tighter.