Girls care about money more than men. My friend JamieLynn had a boyfriend who was a dreamer musician. The boyfriend all of a sudden quit his job and just stayed home with her. She had to feed him and pay his bills for nearly 6 months. Then she dumped him.
That sounds very normal. What woman wants to be with a loser?
Let me ask you guys this: If you are a man, and your girl friend all of a sudden quit her job and just stayed home. You have to feed her and pay her bills for 6 months. Would you dump her?
The answer is likely no. Because men are built to support the family. Unless you are extremely poor, you won't dump your girl.
This proves that what girls told me on this board is illogical. Women only cares about personality? What if some guy just stays home and eats your food?
JamieLynn was fed up by her boyfriend. That's why this time she is looking for a real man.
Knightwriter- 11-10-2007
A lot of women don't understand their own instincts Alex or are afraid to say some things for fear of oppression they used to have to endure. Just view what women DO and not what they say. Learn from the masters like I'm telling you to and you will be as good with women as you are at inventing. You probably don't even know that men's looks are not even a huge issue. They help you get in the door, but it's not nearly as important for men as it is for women. With men it is mainly character traits that determine your success with women.
Generaloflight- 11-10-2007
Alex you are kind of provig our point about women choosing personality over money with your story. The guy had no income for over six months and she stayed with him that long? What do you think made her do that? She probably really clicked with him and she liked his personality alot. She was wishing that it would work out so she let him stay with her without any monetary support coming from him.
I agree with you that paying for a few things makes a woman feel special and secure but when you get into paying someone $17 an hour to go out with you then i'm sure the perception of the relationship by her is instantly jaded. Especially with a stripper. She is already used to getting paid to take her clothes off and give lap dances to customers. You paying her $17 an hour gets her into the mindset that you are nother customer.
If you really want this thing to work Alex stop paying her and get real with her brother. Act a little hard to get and have some pride. Trust me this works. Good luck bro.
TwistinUnderSchizophrenia- 11-10-2007
Alex, there is a HUGE difference there. Women want guys that can take care of themselves and aren't bums. They want a guy with a job and car, etc..Not so the guy can give her all his money or pay for everything, but they want someone that's independent. That's alot different then wanting a "sugar daddy".
Anonymous- 11-10-2007
Gorgeouspil is obsolete now. The superior way to attract hawt girls is $17.85 an hour.
Makybe_Diva- 11-11-2007
He lasted 6 months - he should have thought himself lucky.
Yes, women want a man who is just that - a man. Not someone who cries at the drop of a hat, or who is soooo bloody insecure that they won't stand up for them in public. Independance, security, and love.
Is it really that difficult to figure out?
Me, I'm not like 'normal' women so I probably shouldn't even bother putting in my two cents worth. If my partner came home today and I said "honey, I've quite my job and I'm staying home" I would be soooo bloody happy. You see, I love my job and I would gladly go to work full time and let my partner stay at home - he can look after the kids, clean the house, do the cooking, tackle the supermarkets with an autistic 3 yr old and an ADD 19mth old, I would be over the moon.
But that's just me 8)
CerealRapist- 11-11-2007
Re: Girls care about money more than men. JamieLynn was fed up by her boyfriend. That's why this time she is looking for a real man.
Real men make their living hawking fraudulent products on the internet, and pay women $17 an hour plus shopping expenses to be with them.
Knightwriter- 11-12-2007
Alex, you've got some pretty limiting attitudes and beliefs in this area and you simply won't sort it out unless you follow my advice or similar.
You are subconsciously telling this women that you are not good enough on your own. This is what she is thinking and feeling on a deep level and that will not give you a good result short-term or if you continue after time.
You only have to look around you to see that what you believe is not always true. There are loads of guys with no money and even no looks who have a beautiful women's heart forever. Women are generally not shallow. But you have to know the rules of human psychology and evolution.
If you trigger the feeling of attraction in a women she will go to the ends of the earth for you and not want any other man, however rich or good looking.
The big attraction for women is not physical, although that helps you with approaching women and that, it is personality. Men are more hard-wired to go for looks/a women who takes care of herself.
If you are a mature character and you break-up with a girl it is just the right thing for both of you and you will find a more suitable or compatible partner, NOT because she is so shallow that she wants more money or better looks.
Of course there are women like that but they are not the kind of women you want... they are shallow and not somebody you want to have a meaningful realtionship with anyway, are they?
You are a smart guy Alex, you will work this out.
sunset2sunrise- 11-16-2007
Alex, do you really think you need to PAY for dates with woman?
I really doubt this, you must be of superior intelligence seeing as you were able to somehow invent these rings, yet you appear to be mentally handicapped when it comes to woman. If you weren't then you would realize that any woman, who accepts money from you in exchange for time/sex whatever has NO genuine interest in you what so ever! It's simply a business exchange. The same thing as myself or the next person buying your rings, there is no feeling involved with it... I give you the money, you give me the product, simple as that. This woman is just using you for your money, she is selling a product, and youre buying it...
Does she even make you happy Alex? Do you actually enjoy trailing behind her, carrying her bags of ridiculously expensive items that YOU just bought her.... is this your idea of happiness? That is a slave alex, a slave...!