Girl being stolen is worse than how it seems on TV I used to watch TV comedy and in those shows best friends steal each others girls all the time. But at the end, they all hug and make up and acted like nothing ever happened.
Well, in real life, I am afraid that's not the case. After your friend has screwed up that one special chance you think you have with a special someone, you feel none stop anger. Then you experience trama. Then you know that you and your friend will never be the same again. You have no idea how you can win the girl back. And if you don't win her back, you have no idea when will you finally meet the next potential target. You start to hate everyone that's involved in this case. There is no way you can feel the same when your friend is around you again. You have to constantly watch your back as if your friend is a thief and is ready to steal from you when ever you are off guard. You can never trust him again. It's not easy like on TV, I can just hug him and make up and next morning I forget everything. You don't forget, and you probably will never forgive. Years of friendship ended up with a horrible memory and a huge scar to your well being. That's what SacJB needs to learn. He probably watches TV too much and thinks everything is Micky Mouse and Donald Duck. But in reality, people are cruel. If you don't meet their standards, you will end up alone and no backup. Just say, "Oh, c'mon. I didn't mean it.", won't really solve the problem. Scar is left, and friendship is deminished. There is nothing you can do to alter it back to the way how it used to be.
Anonymous- 07-30-2008
No cure for this then? No redemption. No hope. Well then, maybe there is another redeemer.
TwistinUnderSchizophrenia- 07-30-2008
You should see how having a real girlfriend or wife bein stolen from you feels. You have no idea what it feels like.
AlexYCChiu- 07-30-2008
SacJB, you are not a person with many friends. You can forget about Sabo. At this point he is someone who you know, not a friend anymore.
You have to take care of Pat. take him seriously. He seems like a nice guy. Remember to always keep a distance between you and Francheska or some girl who he deems special to a point that he needs to talk about her all the time. Never try to hug her or show Pat that Francheska could like you more, etc. Never humiliate Pat using Francheska, never. Read Pat's face before you make a move. Always remember what your friends said about their girls and always stay in your own boundary. If your friend's girl hits on you, remember that YOU are solely responsible for the damage if anything bad happened between the girl and your friend. So if I were you, I would just walk away and chat with another girl. I mean Francheska is just a ho anyways. It's not like if she does give you a phone number or even go out with you, she really will become your soul mate. She's just some stripper who wants money. But if you think its funny and dare to cross that line, Pat will leave you one day. Everyone has a weakness. So don't try Francheska! You shall regret if you do. That's why I never dared to cross the line on Pat because Pat is simply so much more important than some ho who always talks about her own boyfriend. I know that even if I successfully got Francheska's number, she probably won't even pick up the phone. She's a stripper. And strippers are flakey as hell. But just by getting her number could cost me my friendship with Pat. Remember that jealousy is the #1 killer of friendship. Remember that well.
Pepe Smith- 07-30-2008
You should see how having a real girlfriend or wife bein stolen from you feels. You have no idea what it feels like.
Qouted for posterity. Lol
Anonymous- 07-30-2008
Guided One, may I have the love spell please.
AlexYCChiu- 07-30-2008
You should see how having a real girlfriend or wife bein stolen from you feels. You have no idea what it feels like.
I know. It's terrible. You try telling yourself that your friend probably didn't mean it. But you cannot ignore the fact that the girl in your dream has been blown away for good. You try telling yourself that you should forgive your friend but you simply can't because he has done something so stupid to a degree that it ruined your life. You're stuck and you don't know what to do. How am I supposed to laugh and hang and eat with him after this incident? I don't even know. His carelessness scares you to death. You know something bad will happen again if you hang out with him. You have to constantly watch out cause he could damage what you have at any moment without notice. It's hard to deal with this kind of person.
Lobsang- 07-30-2008
There is nothing you can do to alter it back to the way how it used to be.
Sure you can Alex. You guys both finds a stripper you like. Take her back to your place and bang the hell out of her together as a team. That will make you guys best frinds of all time again. Trust me. It is like a football team after a great game. They all love each other!
You should see how having a real girlfriend or wife bein stolen from you feels. You have no idea what it feels like.
Well you should try having your wife of 16 years stolen and your kid too! It sucks. It was an Indian that stole them. And I still blame it on Indians.
I got so mad I wrote this poem..
My family was so happy
Everything was well
Until a simple Savage
made my life a living Hell
The savage never said much
He seemed not very smart
But with his shaman power
He stole my dear wifes heart
The savage could not read or write
He snuck out from a hole
He just kind of grunted
As he carved his totem pole
The savage lived a life of ease
Assisted by his clan
And then theres the free health care
Because we stole his land
The savage was so sneaky
I thought he was my friend
He gave me some smoked salmon
And did to his fire tend
Now the savage lives in my home
And I am all alone
To think a simple savage
That can't even dial a phone
Another thing the savage did
Was claim my little kid
That is the most contemptuous thing
That the savage did
So let this be a warning
To every one of you
A savage will steal your family
It's what they like to do
Pepe Smith- 07-30-2008
You should see how having a real girlfriend or wife bein stolen from you feels. You have no idea what it feels like.
I know. It's terrible. You try telling yourself that your friend probably didn't mean it. But you cannot ignore the fact that the girl in your dream has been blown away for good. You try telling yourself that you should forgive your friend but you simply can't because he has done something so stupid to a degree that it ruined your life. You're stuck and you don't know what to do. How am I supposed to laugh and hang and eat with him after this incident? I don't even know. His carelessness scares you to death. You know something bad will happen again if you hang out with him. You have to constantly watch out cause he could damage what you have at any moment without notice. It's hard to deal with this kind of person.
WTF alex? Twistin's comment was meant to show how irrational you were acting over this stripper yet you qoute him as if you are agreeing with him. You guys are weird f*cks, you act as if strippers are your girlfriends and get butt hurt when other people are getting it on. You should widen your social circle and date real girls for a change. Join a gym or something. Also dont be so picky when it comes to dating girls of your own race if you keep this up your immortal @ss would be eternally lonely.
You may be rich but what you lack is style. Since there are many f@gs in San Francisco, I suggest you hire those fruits to give you a make-over. Also get personality classes so you can attract people of the opposite sex.
frank2008- 07-31-2008
oh I don't know why you care girls so much, Alex. You are immortal, you are going to be the most rich man in the world. How many women will you have in 1000 years?
Just take it easy.
AlexYCChiu- 07-31-2008
You should see how having a real girlfriend or wife bein stolen from you feels. You have no idea what it feels like.
I know. It's terrible. You try telling yourself that your friend probably didn't mean it. But you cannot ignore the fact that the girl in your dream has been blown away for good. You try telling yourself that you should forgive your friend but you simply can't because he has done something so stupid to a degree that it ruined your life. You're stuck and you don't know what to do. How am I supposed to laugh and hang and eat with him after this incident? I don't even know. His carelessness scares you to death. You know something bad will happen again if you hang out with him. You have to constantly watch out cause he could damage what you have at any moment without notice. It's hard to deal with this kind of person.
WTF alex? Twistin's comment was meant to show how irrational you were acting over this stripper yet you qoute him as if you are agreeing with him. You guys are weird f*cks, you act as if strippers are your girlfriends and get butt hurt when other people are getting it on. You should widen your social circle and date real girls for a change. Join a gym or something. Also dont be so picky when it comes to dating girls of your own race if you keep this up your immortal @ss would be eternally lonely.
You may be rich but what you lack is style. Since there are many f@gs in San Francisco, I suggest you hire those fruits to give you a make-over. Also get personality classes so you can attract people of the opposite sex.
Yeah I need to hang out with somebody who knows what he's doing and won't be in my way all the time. Somebody who I don't need to babysit nor keep my eyes on him. Somebody who knows the needs of his friend and supplies it to him. Not someone who you must keep an eye on or else he might end up stealing your girl then later say, "Oh. Sorry. I don't mean it. I owe you one. Don't worry. Next time I will talk to some girls for you. So we are cool right?" Too many mistakes. Tired of hanging out with this kind of person.
AlexYCChiu- 07-31-2008
F*ck it. I will let Pat handle him from now on. I want to see how long Pat can withstand this guy. I think SacJB will one day end up like those 40 year old guys who go to strip club alone everyday and without anybody to talk to. You don't know how to take care of others, then you better get used to being lonely.
jc- 07-31-2008
But i thought you were COOL now about this whole thing, you said so in your other post, now you keep going on and on and on about SacJB and what he did and how your not going to be his friend anymore ?
I think you best get over it, that girl GWEN is a stripper, you can get
her back if you try hard enough, stop complaining and make your move already, SacJB has apoligized a thousand times already, he said he will stay away from her but you keep saying the same thing..
Lobsang- 07-31-2008
You don't know how to take care of others, then you better get used to being lonely.
Alex. You talking about lonely. You are in you thirties and have no wife or kids. No real friends at all. None of these people would give a damn about you if they did not think you had money. And we both know you really do not have so much anyway. You are going to wake up in not so long one day and wonder where your life went. You are at an age wherer you should have a wife and kids. Not indulging in childish nonsense with 20 year olds.