Yeah, I think you did. The fact that you were obsessing about her on this board could very well have creeped her out. And you are kind of weird which can translate into creepiness. She probably avoided you and had you banned from the club in the hope that you'd just get over her, but maybe now she realises that's a lost cause so she doesn't make as much effort to avoid you. Alex, you should really move on. You never had anything with Sierra and you never will. What's been happening with the other girls, like the one who asked you to rescue her and the one you went to dinner with a week or two ago?

I am not into strip clubs really but it sounds like she is acting very unprofessional. It should either be that you guys are allowed there, or you aren't. She is acting like a spoiled little girl - like she thinks she owns the club or something.

Girls, girls. They confuse me sometimes. I don't know exactly what she's thinking. But I am trying hard to make her feel comfortable. I stopped talking to her. I don't look at her in the eyes anymore. I stayed away from her stage and from where she stands. I really did everything I could. I am glad that I still could go back and see her from time to time though. It brought back lots of good memories. That club feels like a museum now. I still can go back and see the master piece. Only difference is I cannot touch it anymore.

Meantime, I have to do whatever I can to avoid her. I cannot create any problem for her.

I am drawing great inspiration from this.