Difference between dating a paid woman and free woman
If you can find a dedicated, paid woman, you could date her for a very long time if you wish. Because you pay her, and she feels committed to you. Who else would love her enough to pay her some money each month? Certainly that kind of guy is hard to find. If she breaks up with you, she will be missing some $$$ every month. So she better think twice. Not every man is willing to come up with cash every month. If you date a girl who would go out with you for free and only need you to buy her dinner, she could be gone when a more handsome man comes along. Right? Or she would break up with you simply because she is tired of you. I mean getting guys to buy dinner is very easy for pretty girls. So why would a free girl stay committed to you, especially if the girl is hot and sexy enough to be a top stripper? Don't you have to show her some sincerity? Let's say if you need to pay the girl $400 a month, that's around $5000 a year. So 5 years it costs $25,000. Hey, with $25,000 you can buy a new car. Is a new car more important than a good beautiful woman for the next 5 years? Let's say you don't pay the girl anything but just buy her dinner, how long do you expect the relationship to last? Especially in this country? Maybe 1 or 2 years, or maybe just 2 weeks, in most cases. Most dates don't work out because nobody is willing to show sincerity. Just show some sincerity and I guarantee you the date will work. Man show some money, and woman show some care, like make dinner for men, clean house for men, give men sex, etc. I know you all talk about finding a woman who loves you for who you are. But don't forget that you do have competition. There are better men out there than you. And when she discovers somebody better than you, she could leave you, unless you show her some sincerity.

Alex I'm happy for you but I disagree about needing to give beautiful women money to make it work. Some beautiful women require money but those are the materialistic ones. There are plenty of women out there that would go out with a guy if he has a good personality and they just click together. Being physically attracted to someone is a little important too but there are beautiful women who are attracted to a wide range of physicality. You have to show a woman that you are totally confident with yourself and you will see that in any real relationship money does'nt matter. Once the felings start flowing heavily and you have sex with her it should basically seal the deal. If you two click and you both really enjoy the sex then it's like being in bliss all the time. Those feelings, when they are real feelings, can't be overcome by some richer better looking guy coming along. If those feelings are overcome and she does go with the richer better looking guy then the feelings were false to begin with. Love is the most powerful thing in the universe bro, I hope you get to truly feel it and I hope you are not deeply hurt if she moves onto someone that is richer than you. You seem like the humanitarian type to me trying to heal people and all. I would bet money that if you joined or attended some sort of charity organization that you and a women would click.

I hate that you think relationships work that way Alex. Perhaps that's why you've been alone for so long. I'm not insulting you, but I seriously think that might have something to do with it. I'm sorry, but you're going to end up getting hurt.

Alex, I have a solution for you -- buy her expensive jewelry with your photo or initials engraved in it. Don't buy just any jewelry, make sure it is personalized so that if anyone sees it, they know it is from Alex, and it is something she can wear all the time. This shows your financial commitment to her. However, if she ever tries to sell this jewelry, then you know that she is using you, and is more interested in money than your commitment.

I agree with GoL. Alex, you're not thinking straight.

OMG! You're setting yourself up to be hurt ........ and you won't even know why :shock: Being a woman myself, I can tell you that there is more to life than money. Personally, I go for personality first - money is the last thing that I care about..... it causes waaaaayyyyy tooo many problems. You can have all the money in the world, but if your personality is shit, then you will only get used and abused until your money runs out. Then you will get dumped quicker than a hot potato. You may think that if you earn enough, she will stay, but trust me, women can spend money faster than you can earn it - it's true! I've seen it happen before. I have also witnessed first hand the kind of situation you are in now Alex - my advice to you is BE CAREFUL! It is obvious that you have very strong feelings for this woman, please don't let that cloud your judgement. Good luck!

See even she said in the last post that money isnt everything. It certainly isnt Alex coming from personal experience. You have to make and want a woman for who you are inside and outside as a person and not what you make. I mean dont get me wrong I believe as a man that the man should pay for the majority of things and spoil there woman with what they can, but it should be a mutual thing especially at first and in the long run you will see why if you do so. Since you are a wealthy man find you a woman that wants you for you and THEN spoil her later when you KNOW she is REAL brother! Take care...God Bless and if you get the chance could you get back to me the email and message I sent to you on here. Thanks Alex and Good luck in life! :)

I dont think so. it would kind of be like that movie Pure country starring George strait where he finds him a good girl who wants him for him and at the end plays her a song live and she realizes that he is a country singer and falls even more in love with him. Ehh! how bout that?;) :idea: Damnn thats Hot!

lol My bad. I misunderstood what you meant by that. I'm on pain pills right now due to wisdom tooth pains, so I'm not all there right now.

Alex, you may be a great inventor, but you haven't a clue about women. Women look for resources of character before anything else. You have to show her that you are strong, confident and able to deal with life. Money just shows that you can handle that aspect of life, but showing yourself to be easly manipulated by giving automatically her anything she wants is not good. She sees a weak personal boundary and it shows a lack character maturity. Why do you think the bad asses get all the women? They are strong and condifdent. But you can be confident and together without being a jerk. And you can be generous, but on your terms and not bartering for affection in return. My strongest recomendation is that you go to www.doctorpaul.net and read everthing that man has to offer. You are smart so you will learn it fast, but right now you are heading to another mishap due to poor boundary function. That's what happened with your brother too. You seem to have ethics, warmth and aspects of intellect, but you do seem to be very much needing some of the other parts of a character. This is not meant to be insulting as most people get it from good role models and you don't seem to have had any. Good luck Alex, you are a legend.