I don't know who to trust anymore. Women always say money don't matter, but that's not what they think. Of course women like welthy men.
TwistinUnderSchizophrenia- 11-09-2007
And those are the women you want to stay away from. Those are the materialistic women. No good.
Knightwriter- 11-10-2007
Women say many things. ALL the answers are in that man's work www.doctorpaul.net. You just need to understand psychology and evolutionary psychology. Study it and you will get it and get what you want, don't study it and you won't or it will take you truly ages to figure out what you just could have gotten by simply studying some fascinating and entertaining works.
Vehcklox- 11-10-2007
Re: Behold, Alex claims his rings grant him immortality, but see now, they do not bring him out of slavery.
I used to have alot of feelings about needing someone else, needing a relationship, wanting to satisfy the ache and the hole in my heart. I had alot of lusts in the heart, and perversion in the mind, until I devoted myself to the science which destroys those things within.
The foundation of this issue isn't whether you find a relationship that works out, or even if you are betrayed. The bottom line of the matter is how are the egos living within you affecting you to the point of 'needing' a woman more than 'loving' one? Love is all-patient, all-kind, hopes all things and knows no fear, has no doubt and dwells not on hurt or on the past. You have to ask yourself, what exactly is keeping you from feeling those things naturally, unconditionally, towards everyone?
The key to finding the right woman, is you have to change internally, spiritually and learn about the path of alchemy. You will become strong, and a warrior of boundless psychological resolve, without inner conflict and obstacles. I am such a one, I have become such a one. If I never have a relationship with anyone, I will be happy because I have been made so, by my efforts toward righteousness.
A couple years ago, I was a slave to my heart. Even acknolwedging in my mind that I did not need someone or knew they were wrong for me, never helped my heart to get over them. Because the ego in the heart was so strong it debilitated me, even made me ill with bronchitis. I would spend months just lying around in bed, not understanding why I couldn't get out of that state. Prayer and apologies to God would not help, my sins devoured me from inside because I did not know how to kill them, with the magic key of alchemy. I did not know how to transmute my own waters into wine, such as Jesus had.
A real man has no time for harlots, or dillusional relationships. Has no time to waste on flesh-and-bones "blow-up dolls", who are nothing more than leeches to his pocket book, using the astral light to beguile the lusts of men. If lust is destroyed, where do women like this have their power? Nowhere. Then, honorable and chaste women will be avenged, and society might climb back up from the dregs of destitute ways.
My friend, grab hold, light for all the torch of bygone ages. Some, even now are rallying around the truth, seeing what your invention has implicated.
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Study it and you will get it and get what you want, don't study it and you won't
Feeding the beast which enslaves the heart, only makes it stronger. To kill the beast sets one free, and makes one strong. Even if you knew how to get everything you wanted in life, the karma you create and the sin growing inside you will just become heavier. You will have trapped yourself in your own doom.
Now, a reading from the Tao Te Ching:
"Success is as dangerous as failure. Hope is as hollow as fear."
What does it mean that success is as dangerous as failure? Whether you go up the ladder or down it, your position is shaky. When you stand with your two feet on the ground, you will always keep your balance.
What does it mean that hope is as hollow as fear? Hope and fear are both phantoms that arise from thinking of the self. When we don't see the self as self, what do we have to fear?
See the world as your self. Have faith in the way things are. Love the world as your self; then you can care for all things.
wowchung- 11-10-2007
Re: Behold, Alex claims his rings grant him immortality, but see now, they do not bring him out of slavery.
The key to finding the right woman, is you have to change internally, spiritually and learn about the path of alchemy. You will become strong, and a warrior of boundless psychological resolve, without inner conflict and obstacles. I am such a one, I have become such a one. If I never have a relationship with anyone, I will be happy because I have been made so, by my efforts toward righteousness.
so do you have a girlfriend, or what do you do when you get a woody?
Vehcklox- 11-10-2007
Re: Behold, Alex claims his rings grant him immortality, but see now, they do not bring him out of slavery.
The key to finding the right woman, is you have to change internally, spiritually and learn about the path of alchemy. You will become strong, and a warrior of boundless psychological resolve, without inner conflict and obstacles. I am such a one, I have become such a one. If I never have a relationship with anyone, I will be happy because I have been made so, by my efforts toward righteousness.
so do you have a girlfriend, or what do you do when you get a woody?
I practice pranayama, and I am gradually establishing myself in bramacharya. I am an alchemist. I utilize the energy for the sake of restoring my body, and for the destruction of sins. If by means of practice, I awaken internally, and persist in my pranayama, it may be possible to achieve absolute continence.
I do not need a woman, those needs are in the past. Love is wonderful, if I find the one with which to perform the work, this is a precious thing. If I find no one, it is disconcerning to me, because either way I have the tools to perform a work inside of me, and to establish bramacharya, this is a life well lived, and my heart is not even remotely bothered anymore, and has not been for years. Go and see what the gospels say, they will attest to this attitude:
1 Corinthians 7:5
"Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn."
Absolute continence, whether alone or married, as is written in 1 John 3:9.
This is only possible for the alchemists.
My first love, is God alone. In Isis I will find no want for anything else.
She has stayed me from dangers, and safeguarded my life. She has handed me her wisdom and given me shelter for my soul. The most high, I am hers and she is mine, and I will not place anyone above her.
krylite- 11-11-2007
A good subject. And insightful replies. I agree a lot with what Knightwriter wrote. I'm kind of like Alex. I'm asian-taiwanese, I've been very isolated as well. I don't attract any desirable women because I'm perceieved as immature and weak. i.e. what Knightwriter wrote as character deficiencies. My parents, bless them, know less about the real social world than I do. There are hardly any more good elderly role models out there. People in power seem to be all about corruption and greed. The church has been invaded by despicable perversions of which the highest levels of church authority try to ignore or hide. Our society might as well be devolving into the dark ages or into ages in the BC era. History repeats itself.
I want beautiful woman, both inside and out but I'm not man enough, not even a good man enough even though I try to deceive myself all my life that my goal is to be one. I'll try to look into that Dr. Paulson site you mentioned.
Alex, here's a site that explains the cold hard truth about women:
www.steelballs.com
Very enlightening and truthful, but yet extremely hard to put into practice
the advice especially for lifelong unconfident men like myself. I haven't even started. I'm still working on my career and trying to get to the point of financial independence and social sanity before I can even begin to handle a relationship...
Knightwriter- 11-12-2007
The key is in understanding and then in development. You can be what you want to be, it just takes some preparation and then some simple actions.
I highly recommend all of the works on www.doctorpaul.net ... they both deprogram a lot of untruths and baloney just by studying and understanding them alone and also give some practical steps to attain what you need/want.
And these two self-help products get my highest recommendation for developing yourself:
http://www.thinkrightnow.com/cmd.asp?af=669396http://www.quantum-mind-power.com/ezGaffurl.php?offer=thetrut&pid=1
I tried loads of things to cure OCD and nothing did it until these two things. Don't try other similar things, stick with these and you WILL get results. They are the best, trust me.
TheATA1- 11-13-2007
There are hardly any more good elderly role models out there.
I wouldn't look to the current present of the world to look for role models krylite. A good role model would be one of the founding fathers of america or some of the Men in the old testament such as Elijah, Daniel, Isaiah, Jeremiah and many others, they are the best role models. Today there is so much degeneration that nothing can be trusted or used, look at the role models today, someone who can kick a ball or throw a ball through the hoop or a gangster rap artist on MTV, thats pretty much it for role models today. I really liked alot of what Vehcklox said, although not all, I do not like how he says he is an alchemist and that he destroys his own sin by claiming to trasmute his waters into like Jesus had, whatever that means.
Prayer and apologies to God would not help, my sins devoured me from inside because I did not know how to kill them, with the magic key of alchemy.
Vehcklox, Are you really praying to god then? You prayed to god and god did not help you so you used a magic key of alchemy. I think this is part and parcel of how far you have strayed away from the faith, Faith and belief in Christ is enough to fix you up, you obviously did not have enough faith, and now because of your lack of faith, you turned to alchemy and gnostics. What you need to do is come back and build your faith back up with the foundation of the bible, the gnostic and alchemy beliefs of yours is like quicksand, you will never have a firm foundation, you need to get rid of the quicksand.
LANSD- 11-13-2007
A little reading before I go into my main points later....
Gold Digger on Craigslist - Classic Answer
THIS APPEARED ON CRAIGSLIST
What am I doing wrong?
Okay, I’m tired of beating around the bush. I’m a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I’m articulate and classy.
I’m not from New York . I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all.
Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that’s where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won’t get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level?
Here are my questions specifically:
- Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics- bars, restaurants, gyms
-What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won’t hurt my feelings
-Is there an age range I should be targeting (I’m 25)?
- Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? I’ve seen really ‘plain jane’ boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I’ve seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What’s the story there?
- Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out?
- How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY
Please hold your insults - I’m putting myself out there in an honest way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I’m being up front about it. I wouldn’t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn’t able to match them - in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.
it’s NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests
PostingID: 432279810
THE ANSWER
Dear Pers-431649184:
I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your predicament.
Firstly, I’m not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. That said here’s how I see it.
Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Here’s why. Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here’s the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity…in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won’t be getting any more beautiful!
So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you’re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!
So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold…hence the rub…marriage. It doesn’t make good business sense to “buy you” (which is what you’re asking) so I’d rather lease. In case you think I’m being cruel, I would say the following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It’s as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.
Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. So, I wonder why a girl as “articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful”
as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn’t found you, if not only for a tryout.
By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn’t need to have this difficult conversation.
With all that said, I must say you’re going about it the right way.
Classic “pump and dump.”
I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of lease, let me know.
Yeah Alex, smart business move there, dumping 25K into a "stripper girl" just to talk to....
Knightwriter- 11-13-2007
Gold Digger on Craigslist - Classic Answer
THIS APPEARED ON CRAIGSLIST
What am I doing wrong?
Okay, I’m tired of beating around the bush. I’m a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I’m articulate and classy.
I’m not from New York . I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all.
Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that’s where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won’t get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level?
Here are my questions specifically:
- Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics- bars, restaurants, gyms
-What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won’t hurt my feelings
-Is there an age range I should be targeting (I’m 25)?
- Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? I’ve seen really ‘plain jane’ boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I’ve seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What’s the story there?
- Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out?
- How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY
Please hold your insults - I’m putting myself out there in an honest way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I’m being up front about it. I wouldn’t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn’t able to match them - in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.
it’s NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests
PostingID: 432279810
THE ANSWER
Dear Pers-431649184:
I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your predicament.
Firstly, I’m not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. That said here’s how I see it.
Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Here’s why. Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here’s the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity…in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won’t be getting any more beautiful!
So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you’re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!
So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold…hence the rub…marriage. It doesn’t make good business sense to “buy you” (which is what you’re asking) so I’d rather lease. In case you think I’m being cruel, I would say the following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It’s as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.
Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. So, I wonder why a girl as “articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful”
as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn’t found you, if not only for a tryout.
By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn’t need to have this difficult conversation.
With all that said, I must say you’re going about it the right way.
Classic “pump and dump.”
I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of lease, let me know.
RLMAO. Haha, I really enjoyed that, I thought it was hilarious.
Makybe_Diva- 11-14-2007
RLMAO. Haha, I really enjoyed that, I thought it was hilarious.
It sure was :lol: Some people hey?
ivan4iai- 11-15-2007
Learn from that guy, Alex...a money-hungry whore is not worth your money.