Alex is a VIRGIN---I thint it is pretty evident.
OK so lets assume for a moment that Alex is actually straight in sexual orientation. Now the deal is tha Alex says he has only had sex once. And that was with a girl he alleges that he paid for it. Now think about it. Who would have one and only one sexual experience if they could get more by paying for it? And also if he was willing to pay for sex he could easily score sex on one of those "horny people fling" websites. I mean it is not hard to do at all.
So I submit assuming that Alex is in fact heterosexual that he may not have ever had even one sexual relationship. Or IF he did something went wrong in it. Maybe lack of performance. I do not know. But something is very very wrong. He says things like "chinese girls don't like me any more" Well the fact is that they never did because Alex never had one.
Now Alex may have paid a girl to fondle him or something like that and he qualifies that as sex. I do not know. But putting everything together I think Alex is probably a virgin and terrified of women. Like I say who would pay for sex once and then never have it again ay his age? He has infinite resources. I mean any sexually normal man at Alex's age is going to get sex if he desires it. So Alex either does not desire it or he is basically a virgin who is terrigied of a sexual encounter with a woman.
He said he had a girlfriend in high school. Strippers and prostitutes don't count as girlfriends. It's impossible to experience love with a girl like that. Strip clubs are just a total fuking disaster. Guys go there as a last resort, and its completely meaningless. You just can't find love and respect at a stupid place like that.
Oh I had a girlfriend in highschool and we were sleeping together. And I also hired a prostitute once when I was 28. I had a girlfriend at 25 but we never slept together but were together for almost a year. But that counts.
Oh I had a girlfriend in highschool and we were sleeping together. And I also hired a prostitute once when I was 28. I had a girlfriend at 25 but we never slept together but were together for almost a year. But that counts.
Well Alex tht's cool but what normal man would go without sex for so many years? I mean that is pretty serious if you ask me. I mean it has been a lot of years since you were 28. Why did you stop having sex at 28? I mean it is so abnormal..
you have to say to white girls you had more girlfriends that that, or you will not succeed in getting a nice blonde.
It's funny I was thinking the same thing, if he goes to strip club for that type of woman. Why not just buy a hooker or call girl if you got the money. The feeling in the end are the same, money for your pleasure, just one goes all the way :D
Lobsang you're simultaneously claiming here that he has "infinite resources" and in another thread that he's not really all that rich - really, make your mind up.
Has it not struck you that maybe Alex's experiences of sex have led him to want something deeper - hence the sexless relationship with the girl for over a year. He wants a real connection, and not just sex. I'd say that was a pretty fair and stable place to be coming from for a man of his age.
Lobsang you're simultaneously claiming here that he has "infinite resources" and in another thread that he's not really all that rich - really, make your mind up.
Has it not struck you that maybe Alex's experiences of sex have led him to want something deeper - hence the sexless relationship with the girl for over a year. He wants a real connection, and not just sex. I'd say that was a pretty fair and stable place to be coming from for a man of his age.
With all due respect he DOES spend a lot of time in strip clubs. So he noyt exactly lookin for love there. When did you ever hear Alex talk about a girl's mind? He is talking about the bag girl at the grocery store, girls at mcdonalds, stripper doing lab dances. And also no sexually normal guy goes for like 7 years without sex if they can get it. And by infinite recources I simply meant that he has enough money to not run out in dating woman. No Alex is not "rich".
I am just trying to help him get to the bottom of his dysfunction. That's all.
I think it's deep self-esteem issues. He wants certain things but doesn't feel genuinely capable of getting them. Also, I think Alex would feel uneasy about paying women to like him regularly - he shys away from artifice like that normally. He doesn't even like casting spells to do it.
Then he really needs to find a different playground if he is looking for more, not that it is impossible but highly unlikely at a strip club
