I don't like lairs, cheats or assholes in general. Why would anyone want to be even know people like that. (even though we all do) I think women who like jerks have a very low self esteem, but if they wake up and realize they don't need that treatment, they will look for a nicer guy.

The problem with nice guys is that they're usually total pussies that will completely throw everything they have at the feet of any woman that shows interest in them. It's a huge turn off. Nobody likes weakness, and the classic nice guy leaks of it. His values will change depending on what other people think of him, he always overextends himself to cater to others and gets nothing in return, and he analyzes any little thing someone says to him. It's a result of his low self esteem and lack of confidence.

I don't like lairs, cheats or assholes in general. Why would anyone want to be even know people like that. (even though we all do) I think women who like jerks have a very low self esteem, but if they wake up and realize they don't need that treatment, they will look for a nicer guy. Girls choose nice over bad guys? I don't believe it. If a guy has the finesse to get a girl naked and on her back the first couple of dates, she's going to respect the guy. Deep down people respect that, men and women. Women, deep down, need the guy to be able to screw people over. And if he can do it to her, he's got something. And, she's going to fall in love with this guy. The more he screws her, the more she will love him.

I get stuck on one girl and can't stop wanting her. Like the girl Jennifer who I haven't seen but twice since the summer. My heart starts beating faster if I think she is around. It's a really weird circumstance. But during the summer I saw her often. I don't believe I will see her again, but I keep seeing reminders. And I think of her every day. But this is how a loser thinks. A loser gets stuck on one girl. If I was cool, I would just find another girl. But I have to leave it up to destiny. My feelings for someone who has been gone for months leave me feeling drawn out. It's a weird feeling. I see colors, but inside all I see is black because I don't have her love.

It's like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MYRajKfZYb0

Girls don't think about the man screwing other people. They don't analyze it that way. They don't analyze at all in fact. It's subconscious. It's human nature for women to love a certain type of man. Some women like sissy boys, maybe. Myfantasia is a female but she doesn't have any insight anymore than my grandma.

You would know nothing of my insight first of all. So on that you don't know what your talking about. As I said only those with really low self esteem would like to be treated badly. I'm not saying that I want a sissy guy. But I don't feel that men have to be sissy's to be nice, and I also don't think anyone has to screw someone (anyone) over to get somewhere.

Well a man can't be too cruel, but he can't be too nice either. There is a balance. But generally it is a woman's biology to accept a certain type of man. A wimpy man will never get any love from the really hot girls. It's not even a possibility. I get it all the time from girls. They'll show interest in me at first. But after a few days, if I show the least weakness they will just drop off my radar. They disappear emotionally from me, and treat me like a stranger. I'm exaggerating to make a point. Usually girls continue to like me generally, but I don't make they panties wet anymore.

Some women consider kindness as a sign of weakness. When a man is with a woman it's like piloting an aircraft. The controls are very responsive and require a gentle adjustment but the man has to be master of the aircraft at all times or the plane goes out of control and crashes destroying the man and the plane.