Well, I like dealing with strippers because they are extremely hard to deal with. If you can pick up strippers, you can pick up anybody. Imagine hundreds of men ask strippers out. But she would only go out with the chosen few. I took out 3 strippers already. Didn't score yet. But one did get into my jakuzzi naked with me. Another one kept asking me when will I take her out again. And that one is from Russia, very sexy and gorgeous. Going to strippers not only helped build my confidence, they also make me feel wanted.

But I have to say one thing. You do have to look gorgeous if you want to take out strippers. They are extremely picky since hundreds of men want to ask them out. They can't go out with everybody. So they are extremely picky. I find that strippers like hot guys more than guys with money. The reason is lots of rich men go to strip clubs. And strippers can ask for money at the club, why go out with the guys who have money? But only a few hot guys show up at strip clubs. Most hot guys are too busy picking up girls at bars. So if you are hot, your chances of picking up strippers are higher. If you stand out of the crowd, strippers will pay special attention to you. That's why you need to take my gorgeouspil.

But one did get into my jakuzzi naked with me. WTF? How does a person bring a stripper home and she gets naked and one does not have sex? Or I mean at least oral sex? I just don't get it.

He's scurred of the poonanie.

Oh I promised her that I will put on a shorts. So I went in with her and she was naked. I didn't get aroused because I see her naked at the club all the time. But I did kiss her and make out somewhat. It was still fun.

The whole thing seems strane to me. I mean besides you not doing anything. What the hell does some stripper get from going to your house and getting in your hoyt tube naked. I mean what is her gain? Why would she do that? I mean if there was no relationship or one intended. This whole thing is so weird. I can't figure this all out. But what the hell. I am more messed up than you guys. At least you think you are having a life.

I don't know where you get the idea that strippers are hard to get. Granted some are. But for the most part no. Money is their goal. and if you have it your chances are pretty good. And if you have looks. Bonus. If you are not aroused by the stripper because you see her at the club. Why did you even take her home. Really what was the purpose.

Here is the deal on this. Alex has a good idea, that is having a love life without being judged by money, assets, or whatever. It's an attraction based on being physically attractive yourself. So even if I was broke, the girl I love wouldn't care. She would be overwhelmingly turned on by how hot I am, and start kissing me first. So the girl does all the grabbing and fondeling which actually will boost a guys ego a lot. It means she REALLY must feel something for me. Honestly ask yourself. Would you rather your girlfriend think of you as a sugar daddy, or as a boy toy? So she wouldn't be bothering you about anything except for getting your clothes off and into bed.

I don't buy it at all. It is not that hard to find a nice girl that will not want you for your money. But you are not going to find them in a strip club. Nothing adds up. I man Alex is meesed up. No he is not as messed up as me. But he is messed up just the same...

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hey jimmy. i used to watch the secret too and now i'm not sure about it. I mean, I think about tarah all the time. so why hasn't she popped back in my life? see?

I just recently heard about the secret. I've always known that thinking positive has an effect on what we have. You have to be positive about what you want from life. There's no other recourse. The alternative is thinking negative, and that will kill your dream. The universe will give to you everything you tell it to. It's listening to your every thought. But the time between your desire to get something, and when you actually get it can be long. But I think that timeframe can be shortened given enough energy. And its not so easy being positive all the time. Negative thoughts will come, but you just have to counter the negative thoughts as much as you can. If you want Tarah, be single minded about her. Don't think about other girls. Dont look at them. Other girls take the steam out of the energy you are putting into Tarah. Write her name down, and think on her only. How can you attain Tarah or anything you want if you are focused on 10 or 20 girls? It's like climbing Everest. It's not so easy going up, but you go up or die trying. Anything good is going to take some dedication. Otherwise you'll just have to settle for less.